I’m pretty sure there are no longer any 7-Elevens around where I live anymore (a quick search tells me the closest one is about 10 miles away from me). But if you have one near you, you can go get a free Squishy Slurpee today, because it’s 7/11. It also happens to be my anniversary – 18 years. I’m celebrating by being back at work after 10 days off (though I was on call this weekend, so I was only “off” in the sense that I wasn’t getting paid). Fortunately for my wife – this, coincidentally, is her anniversary as well – and the dogs, she’s off today.
We had an unusual day yesterday – for the first time in longer than I can recall, it was actually cool out and it rained (a little bit – just enough to make the weeds reach for the sky – the grass is still brown and brittle, especially over the leach field). It felt very strange (and enjoyable) to be cool for a day. Sadly, it won’t last long. Today is supposed to be normal (mid eighties) and then it’s back up into the nineties again for the rest of the week. And no rain, except for maybe a pop-up thunderstorm here or there, which will just make it even muggier out.
We’re not really used to things being this hot and dry around here. I mean, if I wanted this nonsense, I’d move to Texas or something. But I think I’d stay away from Texas ‘cuz I think there’s gonna be a race riot down there (but not limited to there, unfortunately) pretty soon.
Of course, once President Trump takes over, he’ll clear all this nastiness up. I hear he’s a race uniter.
Happy anniversary!
OK, why am I just finding out about this?
Gee, I dunno. They were “invented” in the 1800s by the Irish salt “miners” in Syracuse. No actual mines, though – there were salt springs around Onondaga Lake here, and they’d put the briny water into big metal pans (called salt sheds) and leave them out in the sun. Once the water evaporated, all that was left was the salt. In fact, most of the salt in the US in the 1800s came from there (which is why they put the Erie Canal through Syracuse instead of Auburn – and why Syracuse is the “Salt City.”
Ate lots of salt potatoes growing up – probably one reason for my high blood pressure.
I used to work with the advice that if you over-salted a soup. add potatoes to remove some of it.
Happy anniversary RG and PJ. A Marriage that has lasted for 18 years is certainly a thing to celebrate. I wish you many more good times.
Mike and I have been together for 46 years. We lived together for 20 years and raised 2 kids before we had a wedding. Not because either if us wanted to be anywhere else but, being old hippies, we never thought the paper was important. Eventually things got complicated. We owned a house and we had kids and it was just much easier to be legally married. All the LGBT folks discovered the same thing.
Right now 46 years doesn’t seem long enough. Mikey has been ill for several months and while an exact diagnosis isn’t settled, it seems clear that there will be no good ending to this story. And, as bad as that is, the craziness that the insurance company rules create, adds stress and pain to what is already too stressful and much too painful.
Oh sp, I’m saddened to hear this news about your MIke. Please know I’m sending good thoughts your way.
and to the insurance bastids. GRRRRRR
Sue, I am so sorry for you and Mikey and your situation. I have been surrounded by a number of bad ones recently with family and friends, even today. I am very poorly suited for it and foolishly wish it would all go away but I know it won’t.
I do hope the story for you and Mikey gets a re-write and the ending is not written for a long time. 🙁
Sue, I’m so sorry to hear about Mike. It’s a shame that insurance companies seem determined to make a difficult time more difficult.
I may have posted this already but I will do it again. I have found it helpful in recent times.
What it means to “hold space” for people, plus eight tips on how to do it well
Thanks, Vern. Everything helps. Nothing helps.
I am so sorry. I have been having a lot of these conversations lately and looking to some possible transitions in my own circle of family and friends soon but nothing as close as your situation.
Lots of heavy sighs and tears.
And I hate that you’re going through this, sp….here in the ether, I think I speak for all of us, we’re with you….
In case we need an Amerixit (Canada is too close):
Remote Irish island seeks Americans fleeing Donald Trump presidency